Guess Much Love
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How to handle parents that don't love you as much as your siblings?
I'm older now, so I've gotten over a lot of the resentment that I have towards my parents and their favoritism. But it still hurts at times and I guess it's hard for me to understand why they don't love me as much. I won't go into detail as to HOW they show me they don't love me, but it's a pretty well known fact.
Just wondering if people are in the same position... maybe some words of advice to stop caring so much.
Thanks
I hear you, and I honestly do understand. I made excuses for the longest time, and then one day, they said something that just slammed my heart to the ground. I cried for hours, because I finally allowed myself to accept that no matter what I did or how hard I tried, I would always be in last place. Once I honestly accepted that fact, my heart started to disengage, and I've slowly been able to not care.
I'm not sure this is advice...I've been trying my whole life to get where I am now. I guess I'd have to tell you to stop protecting your heart. I know what they say/do hurts, but you keep it at a distance with excuses or walls...you have to grab what they say/do, and let your heart feel/hear it, for the first time. The pain will be enough to tear the disillusion from your mind.